If you really want to rock your woman’s world during penetration sex, then you’ve got to give her foreplay orgasms first. This will make it a heck of a lot easier for her to climax from penetration and it also makes them much more powerful since the strength of a woman’s orgasms intensify with each one she has.
How To Finger A Woman Step 1 – Use the right foreplay
Way to many men out there are using foreplay as a way to “get her ready”. This is the wrong way to look at foreplay.
Instead, you want to use foreplay to make her crave more!
So in this case, you’re going to create a desire within her to have your fingers inside of her.
After you’ve kissed for a while and properly stimulated her erogenous zones with your fingers, tongue, lips and breath, begin to touch the area around her vagina.
The insides of her thighs are extremely sensitive and so is her pelvic bone.
Now start to touch her vaginal lips a bit before you stimulate her clitoris.
The clit is VERY sensitive and you should NEVER touch it without making certain that she’s properly “lubricated”. You can use a lube for this but if you’ve done your foreplay right up to this point, she should be naturally lubricated enough.
How To Finger A Woman Step 2 – Give her a clitoral fingering orgasm first!
It’s so easy to give her this type of orgasm and (assuming she’s already “riled up”) and after she’s had one of these, it’ll be so much easier to give her an internal fingering orgasm.
All you have to do is use the tips of 2, 3 or 4 fingers, place them on her clitoris, and rub down on it in a small circular motion.
It could take up to ten minutes of this type of stimulation until she does cum but it will happen.
Extra Tip – Engage her emotionally by telling her how sexy she looks and talking to her. Also, make sure you keep stimulating the rest of her body at the same time.
How To Finger A Woman Step 3 – Give her an internal fingering orgasm
First, a quick tip. Whenever you put a finger inside your girl, make sure you start with just one.
A woman’s vagina will open up and make more room but you’ve got to “prepare it first.”
So start with one finger first then pull it out, and enter her again with 2 at the same time.
The easiest way to give her an internal fingering orgasm is by stimulating the g-spot.
With your palm facing up, feel around about 2 inches inside of her for an area that feels kind of like a raspberry.
Once you’ve got it, make a “come here” motion with your fingers and pull on it.
The more aroused she gets, the more it will swell up. Then it’s just a matter of time before she erupts into orgasm.